Thursday, January 10, 2013

the posh'mina showoff + GIVEAWAY!

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As you ladies (gentlemen? doubt it) know, I just about live in scarves. I wear one almost every single day and although I sometimes know how to tie them (ok...so hope that all of the twisting and tying somehow works), it's nice when something comes along and makes it easier. The wonderful ladies at The Posh'mina sent me this scarf (as well as this one!) and I'm so excited because not only does the design make it easier to nonchalantly drape across your neck, you can also use it as a shawl or belt it or even as a top. Since I was wearing this to work (and therefore under a lab coat), I went the conventional route and used the slots to secure the ends. The scarf feels and looks so expensive - I especially like that this one has 2 different sides as I think it gives the scarf more depth.

The Posh'mina has generously afforded to give one of their scarves away to one of you! Just enter the Rafflecopter below. I apologize to all of you international ladies, this one is only open to US residents.


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Cardigan: Ann Taylor Outlet  {save / splurge}
Tee: Gap
Scarf: c/o The Posh'mina
Jeans: Urban Outfitters  {exact}
Belt: J. Crew {exact but cheaper in stores!}
Boots: Frye  {exact}
Purse: Madewell  {exact}
Watch: Kate Spade  {exact}
Bracelet: DIY


















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a Rafflecopter giveaway

behind the blog: respect the shoes

Lisa from Respect the Shoes is one of my new favorite reads. She has that classic style while still having fun with her outfits. She's completely adorable and I know you are going to be so inspired by not only her style but also her attitude.

Tell us what motivate you to start blogging. Were you following a lot of personal style/fashion blogs before you started blogging?

I was a total style blog lurker for several months before I started my own blog. I found style blogs on accident when trying to Google a review on some clothing I was considering and it took a few weeks before I even “got it” in terms of what the heck this whole deal was. I thought the community was really supportive and fun, plus I worked from home at the time and sometimes had little reason to even change out of my jammies some days. Style blogging challenged me to 1) get dressed, and then 2) experiment with fashion.

Which blogs do you read every day? 

I look at a handful of style blogs which are aspirational and inspirational to me in one way or the other – Atlantic-Pacific, Gary Pepper, Park & Cube, Classy Girls WearPearls.

But the blogs I really connect with and read are daily style blogs by real women I can relate to – Little Tin Soldier, Girlsack, Notes from the Dressing Room, Dea Diaries are some examples (and your blog has been a wonderful new discovery for me).

Who takes your pictures? What camera and lens do you use? Have you ever been caught in the act of taking these?

I take my own pics with a wireless remote and tripod. I currently use a Panasonic Lumix DMC-FZ150 which has a cool flip up screen and loads of fancy features I don’t know how to use.

Due to time restraints, I pretty much take all my pics in, or right outside, my home. I’d love to be one of those gals who can find interesting backgrounds for her pics, but I have neither the time, talent, nor guts to haul a tripod around town and takes pics of myself in public spaces!

Do people in real life know about your blog? What were their reactions when they found out about your blog?

Only immediate family and close friends know I have a blog. Most of them have little interest in it, but I was really embarrassed about it at first – I mean, I’m proud of my blog and all, but to those who don’t really know about blogging, it just seems like a really vapid and self-absorbed hobby … and it kind of is, but aren’t all hobbies kind of like that? I honestly feel like people who don’t read blogs or blog themselves don’t really get it.

Your outfits are always an adorable mix of classic and modern. What tips do you have for those who are trying to round out their closet with those timeless pieces?

It’s taken me a lot of time, probably too many dollars, and a lot of trial and error to figure out what works for my lifestyle and body type. And I am no expert by any means, so I am still learning myself.

Not sure if this answers your question or not, but I work in a corporate environment with mostly older co-workers and I travel quite a bit, so that instantly has forced me to opt towards more “grown-up” pieces that can withstand some abuse and be flexible enough for lots of different situations. Stuff like suit separates, coats, handbags, etc.

However I didn’t want to look too conservative (or old), so I try to mix it up in terms of what’s appropriate and what’s trendy. So maybe a shirtdress in a brighter hue. Or a wool jacket with some spiked metallic jewelry. Leopard shoes with a pair of trousers. A classic blazer in stripes. So that I fit in, but still kind of stood out.

Many fashion bloggers hop from one trend to the next. How do you manage to stay on trend without breaking the bank and just blindly following each trend?

Fashion is all about trying new things, which I enjoy, but I’m no trailblazer. It usually takes several weeks and/or months before I try out something new to me – shoot, I just got into colored pants this year. So honestly some trends die out or hit super-sale before I even get to them – being tentative is an instant wallet-saver, hehe.

If I do want to try something new, I’ll usually start with one of the fast fashion retailers. They usually have a ton of options and prices are cheap, so if something doesn’t work out for me – hello, cropped harem pants – I’m not out a whole lot of money.

Putting yourself on the internet comes with the expectation that not everyone will always love what you are wearing and writing. Have you encountered any of these criticisms, and if so, how do you handle it?

I know not everyone’s going to like what I wear all the time, or think I’m vapid, or write like I’m living in a land of unicorns and fairies - and that’s fine for people to think so and even tell me so. Like you mentioned, I am putting myself out on the Internet for phrase and inevitable criticism alike.

If someone really doesn’t like me just because I exist, they don’t have to read my blog. I’ve had random people leave hateful pointless comments before – yes, I am well aware what I look like, thanks so much - and I went right ahead and deleted them. I don’t need to waste my own time on that.

However, if someone doesn’t think my outfit works and wants to recommend another kind of top, or wants to correct me on a fact I’ve misused, or has a differing opinion on a post topic – that’s just creating a dialogue and there’s nothing wrong with that, IMO.

What has been the best thing to come out of blogging? 

Learning to dress better. Being less afraid to try new things. Making more of an effort to look good, and in turn, making myself feel better. Being more accepting of myself. “Meeting” a great community of other stylish women in an environment where it is OK not to completely serious all the time.

When it comes to promotion of your blog, what methods do you use? Do you spend a lot of time commenting on other blogs, pinning your looks, doing link ups?

I guess I don’t really do much in the way of blog promotion. My blog is a fun hobby for me and I kill enough minutes already taking photos or thinking up posts, so honestly I don’t do a whole lot else. I appreciate the people who take the time to visit my blog and leave a comment so typically I’ll check out their blogs and leave a comment back – it’s been a great way for me to find some new really interesting blogs.

I’ve also started pinning some outfit pics but really use that as a way for me to see quickly what I’ve worn recently. I don’t have tens of thousands of followers on Pinterest or anything, so I can’t really correlate if my pinning has any effect on my blog.

What tips or suggestions do you have for your fellow bloggers? 

I think there’s a tiny bit in all of us gals who start a style blog that hope that we’ll catapult into blogger stardom and gain a huge following and loads of luxe sponsorships in a matter of weeks. And I’m sure that does happen to some ladies, but for the vast majority of us, we work really hard to get a following, find out voice, our niche, etc. So I think my only piece of “advice,” if you could call it that, is to make sure you’re enjoying it. Blogging takes up a lot of time and most of us make little to no money doing it, so please blog because youwant to, not because you think you haveto.

Thank you so much Lisa! Next week we have Heather from Pearls & Paws!

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

wind like woah

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You guys. It was so windy this morning. I had no idea what to do with myself...or my hair which was all over the place. That's what I get for even attempting to do anything with it - a face full of wind. I was doing all these unnatural (more unnatural than standing in front of a camera taking pictures of yourself already is) poses and nothing worked. So this is what you get today. At least I tried...















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Blazer: H&M  {similar}
Chambray: Old Navy  {exact}
Jeans: Urban Outfitters  {exact}
Belt: Gap  {save / splurge}
Shoes: Tory Burch  {exact}
Watch: Target  {similar}
Ring: Stolen from my sister Karoline


















I'm in love with this belt. I bought it when Whitney and I went shopping and got it for a song. Since I now realize what I was missing out on with mustard colored items (hey, only like 4 years behind), I am trying to play catch up.


via Instagram

Tuesday, January 8, 2013

black & white & striped all over

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This month's Marionberry Style "Challenge" is stripes...which is why I put that in quotes because with my collection of striped shirts, it wasn't really a challenge. When I was trying to figure out which shirt to wear, I realized I haven't actually worn my sequin striped shirt to work. Back when Whitney and I did our 4-ways-to-wear-this-shirt challenge (mine here, hers here), she layered a collared shirt underneath it. I thought it looked so great on her that I wanted to try it too. 

The shirt I used for layering used to have sleeves - until I hulked out in it during a time I was doing 60 pushups a work out session (which no longer happens, because my body structure does not need more bulk in the arms). I was wearing it mostly as a layering shirt at that point anyway, so I just cut off the sleeves where the rips had started. It actually makes it easier to wear now since I don't have to worry about rolling sleeves and adding even more bulk. 




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Also, my nails have been bare for the last 2 days and it's driving me nuts. I hate the feeling of bare nails, but I just ran out of my favorite top coat (Seche Vite...go buy it immediately) and I'm doing some physician shadowing on Friday so no crazy nails for me. But trust, come Saturday my nails WILL have color on them.


















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Shirt: Loft  {similar}
Under-shirt: Francesca's  {similar}
Trousers: Gap
Watch: Boccia
Bracelet: DIY
Bag: Kate Spade  {similar}
Tassel on Purse: DIY by my mom
Shoes: Tory Burch  {exact}


















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Please go check out how everyone else wore their stripes today - and then wish Marion luck as she's due to give birth any day now!
















also linking up with wiww.











Monday, January 7, 2013

inspired

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This is a slight rip-off of this outfit with a few adjustments to my accessories. My second favorite part about blogging (the first is all of you ladies) is how inspired I am by other bloggers. I sometimes I look at my closet and wonder how I have all of these clothes but can't come up with an outfit...but then I just head to my Pinterest board full of outfits I pinned with pieces I already own and instantly find something to put together. Isn't providing and finding inspiration the whole point of blogging? 

But don't forget - there is a difference between finding inspiration and straight up copying. Give credit where credit is due and find your own style somewhere in the middle :)






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And if you need more inspiration for styling a mustard cardigan, check out Audrey's recap of the way she's worn hers! I'm also doing a little guest post for her so please check it out!



















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Cardigan: thrifted  {save / splurge}
Blouse: H&M  {similar}
Jeans: American Eagle  {exact}
Necklace: Ann Taylor Outlet  {similar}
Watch: Kate Spade  {exact}
Purse: Madewell  {exact}
Shoes: Crown Vintage  {save / splurge}





















Sunday, January 6, 2013

friend ♥...and cold ankles

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After I graduated from college in May 2011, I had somewhat of the "recent graduate blues". Besides the whole "real world" stuff, I'm not exaggerating when I say that all but one of my girl friends moved away to go to graduate school, or go on adventures in other states/countries. Chris was also in the middle of hardcore studying, so I felt really alone a lot of the time. I mentioned that I'm so thankful for all of you blogging friends I now have because you make me feel like I have friends I connect with every day...which is probably why Chris doesn't always understand why I spend so much time typing on my computer ;)  

But we all need to have people in our real lives, so this is all just a rambling way to tell my last Madison friend standing, Lizzi, how much I appreciate her. She's the friend that I go to concerts with, the girl I go pilates-ing with, and the girl I call when things don't happen like I want them to. We met up Saturday afternoon just to chat, and I think the signs of a true friend are when you get chat for hours and could keep the conversation going with ease. So thank you Lizzi, for being a true friend, my confidante  and sometimes photographer.
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Sweater: J. Crew Factory  {exact}
Scarf: Forever 21  {save / splurge}
Jeans: Gap  {similar}
Boots: Frye  {exact}
Belt: H&M Mens
Watch: Fossil  {similar}
Bracelet: J. Crew via eBay  {similar}







P.S. I know some of you have expressed a bit of concern about my bare ankles during the work week. Please know that I'm not some cold ankle baring hussy all day - I park my car in our attached garage at home, and only have to walk about 30 yards from my parking spot into work, so I spend minimal time outside during the winter. On days where it has snowed, I wear either my real boots, or I'll wear my ugly $10 Target fake Uggs into work and change. I didn't want you to think that wearing thin ballet flats is the norm for Wisconsin winters ;)

Friday, January 4, 2013

Necklaced

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I'm a huge huge fan of Lilly's Style and Hello, Gorgeous. After pinning the same type of their outfits several different times, I figured I needed to try it out for myself. I've already been working on the button-up under the sweater, so all that was needed was the necklace. My mom got me this necklace as a little Christmas gift and it was the perfect piece to try it out.

Turns out I over think just about everything as this wasn't a huge sartorial risk - I just need to try things instead of hmming and hawing about it for a year ;)












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Sweater: Target  {exact}
Blouse: Forever 21  {similar}
Jeans: American Eagle  {exact}
Necklace: Gift  {exact, similar}
Watch: Fossil  {save, similar}
Shoes: Tory Burch  {exact}
Nails: seen here


















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