Monday, December 31, 2012

like a diamond

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Happy New Year's Eve! We're being awesome and staying in to eat homemade tiramisu and watch movies instead of going out, so I wore my sparkles to work instead. I've been wanting to try the sparkly tank/collared shirt/blazer look ever since I pinned this look when I first joined Pinterest. I was double inspired when Jessica instagrammed a dressing room picture with a similar look. Although I've had this tank for over a year, I've only worn it a few select times because really, how often can you get away with a sequin covered torso?















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I just received this polka dot popover from J. Crew Factory and I'm really excited about it - I think it'll quickly become a favorite in my closet. I ordered it in 2 different sizes and have decided to keep the large. If you are interested, I also have a medium and would be willing to sell it to you for the price I paid ($32 which includes shipping). It is currently $48.50 online. If not, I'll return it back to our nearest factory store but thought I would put it out there since it's currently $20 more expensive than what I got it for. Just send me an email at fhasselhof (at) gmail (dot) com if you're interested!  Sold!













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Blazer: J. Crew  {exact}
Popover: J. Crew Factory  {exact}
Tank: Express  {save, splurge}
Jeans: American Eagle  {similar}
Shoes: Tory Burch  {exact}
Bead Necklace: Wal-Mart  {similar}
Gem Necklace: Forever 21  {similar}
Watch: Fossil  {very similar}
Nails: seen here


















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Happy New Year! Can't wait to see what 2013 brings for all of us :). Linking up with the pleated poppy.

Saturday, December 29, 2012

6 months of 2012: a review

Well, all the cool kids are doing it, so I felt obligated to do it too. Don't worry, I won't show you every.single.outfit of the year because if you cared that much, you know where the archives are ;) I only started blogging this year, and spent a good 2 months of that time as a "hiding in the bathroom faceless blogger" (my first real world post is here! such a baby) so it's really only a "best of the last 6 months" kind of roundup. Either way, here's a list of the best, worst, and wtf was I thinking of the year:

Favorite Outfit of the Year: This outfit is my favorite for several reasons. It has my new favorite purse in it, I really like this (new to me) color combination, and it has the perfect feminine/masculine vibe going on that I've realized is what I tend to gravitate towards. Plus the photography gods were on my side that day so overall, favorite.

Biggest WTF of the Year: This pattern-on-pattern monstrosity. In theory, not too bad since pattern mixing is all about staying in the same color family. Unfortunately, this is just too much, too bright, too overwhelming. You live, you learn. I'll stick to little pattern mixing instead.

Biggest Regret Purchase: Although these pants were only $20, I've only worn them one time. I don't really love drawing that much attention to my legs so bright green pants weren't the smartest purchase for me. I think this was one of those "everyone has colored jeans, I NEED THEM TOO" purchases. I've definitely learned my lesson.

Favorite Manicure of the Year: Although extremely simple in design and execution, I love this manicure and hold myself back from recreating it every week.

Biggest Learning Experience: I'm a huge fan of and participant on GOMI. There are some really smart and sassy ladies on there, and I love going to place that allows me to feel sane when looking at some of the more out there blogs. I've met some of my favorite bloggers on there as well. That being said, being on an anonymous site doesn't always mean you're anonymous. I've learned that as unoffensive as you try to be on the internet in general, you aren't going to please everyone but for every 1 person who dislikes you, there are in general 10 that do like you. My face and thighs aren't those of a supermodel, but I think I can add a little bit of value to "fashion" blogging as a whole in a normal girl kind of way.

Most Pageviews of the Year: This post about a little trick Bri taught me has 3 times as many views as the next highest viewed post. I hope all of the repins on pinterest have helped a lot of other women with the art of layering ;)

Favorite Thrifted Item: I'm pretty new to thrifting. My mother, literally the most stylish woman I know, is a huge thrift store person, so it's almost embarrassing to admit that reading blogs motivated me to finally go to a thrift store. I haven't purchased that much, but this mustard cardigan is my favorite. I'm unsure what the original brand is, or how old it is, but I love the color and fit, so I don't even care.

Favorite DIY of the Year: My tube bracelets are my favorite thing I've made this year, with my flannel scarf coming in as a close second. I made them in gold and silver, and reach for them almost every single day. Plus the materials cost less than $10 and are super easy to make - cheap and easy: sounds good to me!

Most Worn/Favorite Purchase: My favorite purchase of the year is also my most worn (makes sense, huh?). My J. Crew Schoolboy blazer, which was a birthday present to myself, is the most expensive piece of clothing I own, but I know the cost per wear will eventually be less than a lot of my cheaper pieces of clothing.

So that's it! I hope 2013 brings me the foresight to make smarter purchases to fill the holes in my closet, to still expirement with my clothes, and to continue to have fun with this little hobby.

Friday, December 28, 2012

under the sea

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A little sea inspired manicure for the week by the sea.

Blue: Essie Mezmerised
Blue Glitter: Julep Ivy
Green Glitter: Julep Harper
Ring: borrowed from Karoline  {adorably similar}





Linking up with the Nail Files and Mani Monday
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Thursday, December 27, 2012

behind the blog: chic on the cheap


This week's Behind the Blog features Lyddie from Chic on the Cheap. Lyddie always looks fashionable and put together while not spending a lot of money. She has some great insight about blogging and shopping so I'm really excited to have her here this week!
Tell us what motivate you to start blogging. Were you following a lot of personal style/fashion blogs before you started blogging?
I was not following any blogs when I started! Chic on the Cheap didn't even start out as a personal style blog, it was more about shopping and for a while I was doing weekly "outfit under $100" inspiration collages.
It wasn't until a personal style blogger commented on my blog and I visited hers, saw what she was doing, looked at her blogroll and had the realization that daily outfit photos would be a direction I'd enjoy taking the blog in.

Which blogs do you read every day? 

Well I try to read them all. I always look at the blog of anyone who leaves a comment at mine, and leave a thoughtful comment if I can. Especially if I see its a blogger just starting out, because that is when getting comments is the most meaningful.
  
Who takes your pictures? What camera and lens do you use? Have you ever been caught in the act of taking these?

Usually I take them myself, with a tripod and remote. Occasional I can coerce a friend or family member into taking them, which is ideal for more public settings.

I've definitely been caught in the act, or rather, I don't try very hard to do it in secret. I've got plenty of stories ranging from funny to frightening, though usually people just ask me one of three things:
Are you a model?
Do you want any help taking those?
I'm not in that, am I?

Presently I'm using a Canon 60D (I love that it has a pivoting screen, it helps so much with the self portraits) and I rarely take off my 50mm 1.4 prime lens. Ideally I'd like to shoot wide open, but it's too hard to get critical focus when relying solely on autofocus, so I usually set it to 2.8.

Do people in real life know about your blog? What were their reactions when they found out about your blog?

Yes, everyone knows about the blog, and I even have all my posts feed into my Facebook account. Sometimes I'll run into a friend who I haven't seen since high school in the grocery store and they will tell me how much they love looking at my outfits.

The premise of your blog is finding create style without spending a lot. Where do you find your greatest deals? What advice do you have for those hoping to find amazing pieces for less?

It's no secret that T.J.Maxx is my favorite place to shop, and I frequently browse the thrift and secondhand stores in my area. Of course you never know what you will find, and you definitely have to dig.

When I'm looking for deals online, amazon is my go-to source for shoes.

Gap/Old Navy almost always have a coupon code for 20 to 30% off and it's easy to get free shipping. Old Navy has a LOT of J.Crew dupes floating among their offerings. Since you can return to a brick and mortar store, it's a safe bet.

JCPenny definitely made some big strides with their recent revamp; on CyberMonday I stocked up on brightly colored pencil skirts, for $10, $14, and $17 with free shipping, how could you go wrong?

Many fashion bloggers hop from one trend to the next. How do you manage to stay on trend without breaking the bank and just blindly following each trend?

I try not to blindly follow each trend, but let me tell you, after seeing everyone wearing it, it's hard not break down and buy into it. Right now it's the animal sweaters. I'm trying to stay strong and remind myself that I'm an adult woman do not need a fox on my chest, no matter how cute it looks layered over a gingham button down and red pencil skirt.

Something I've realized about trends is that many don't ever really go away. Animal print is never going to be out of style. Maybe a leopard fedora won't always be the best choice, but I'm pretty sure I'll be wearing my leopard sheath dress for years to come.

Putting yourself on the internet comes with the expectation that not everyone will always love what you are wearing and writing. Have you encountered any of these criticisms, and if so, how do you handle it?

I've never had anyone be especially cruel, which I am very thankful for. As for the occasional disapproving remark, I can usually just laugh. 

What has been the best thing to come out of blogging? 

The blog has become a big commitment in my life, it's an entity that I have complete control over, and no one to answer to other than myself. It feels great to have that. When I started, the goal was just to have a creative project, a reason to get my camera out.

Now it's become this wonderful social entity - I've made friends, many just on the internet, some in real life.

And then their is the concept of monetization; it would be pretty amazing if the blog could be my day job. But for now, I'm still pretty ecstatic when I get an offer to review a product for a company.

When it comes to promotion of your blog, what methods do you use? Do you spend a lot of time commenting on other blogs, pinning your looks, doing link ups?

Yes. Yes to all. I promote every way I can, while trying my absolute best not to be annoying. You can definitely over promote! But really, the goal is to have great content so that others will want to promote you.


What tips or suggestions do you have for your fellow bloggers? 
Having an expensive camera is not going to make your photos better. Having a couture handbag is not going to make your outfit better.

It's easy to look at some of the heavy-hitter style bloggers and convince yourself that all you need is one particular material possession and your blog will be an overnight success.

I can't tell you the secret to getting your blog to go viral, but I'll remind you to blog because you enjoy doing it and not because all you want is a bigger number of followers.
(but if you do figure out how to get your blog to go viral, let me know.)


Thank you so much Lyddie! Next week Sam from Sam ipsa Loquitur will be featured - you're going to love her!

Wednesday, December 26, 2012

December Budget

1. Target Sweater {seen here}: on sale for $13
2. Julep Clutch & Nail polish: $30 - $20 credit = $10
3. Thrifted Wool Sweater {seen here}: $3
4. J. Crew Excursion Vest {seen here}: $110 x 30% off = $77
5. Madewell Tote {seen here}: $168 + 30% off + monogram fee = $135
6. Thrifted Cardigan {seen here}: $3

= $241 - $230 sold on eBay after fees = $11

This month I did go over budget, but I knew I was doing a lot of selling on eBay so I consider it a trade-off for my closet and budget.  I mentioned that I sold a smaller purse in exchange for my new Madewell tote, which is a purchase I've been contemplating for a long time now. I feel that a large tote bag is something I'm going to get a lot of use out of, which I can't say about the smaller green crossbody I sold (which I've only used three times in the 6 months I owned it). The vest was a purchase I've also been thinking about for a while as I wanted a thinner vest for layering in the winter, so I'm glad I bought it while I could before it sold out, but still during a sale. I realized that on days that I'm pressed for time when getting ready, I always grab for my dark grey v-neck sweater, so buying the Target sweater only made sense (plus it's so soft and so inexpensive). The Julep clutch was a Christmas promotion that had 1 sparkly clutch (something I didn't have at all but realized I would like in my closet), 3 nail polishes and a few little extras. The two thrifted items have already born worn a ton in the short time they've been in my closet, so I'm happy I got quality pieces for such a small amount.

Overall, I'm really pleased with how this month panned out. I sold some items that hadn't gotten any use in months/years, and have added pieces I know will be worn a lot. Next month I intend to buy some of the holes in my closet -  black pumps for interviews coming up (somewhat of a bummer to spend money on something I won't get a lot of use out of right away but something I need), possibly a black blazer that Audrey recommended, and I'm going to be on the look out for suede boots if I can find some in a decent price range. If not, that'll have to wait until February.

So how did you do this month? Did Christmas shopping mean you didn't spend much on yourself, or did the post holiday sales help you score some great deals? Link up below! Please make sure you link back so your readers can discover other budgetting bloggers.


Tuesday, December 25, 2012

sandy toes

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Merry Christmas y'all (I'm in the South, I'm allowed to say that now). I hope Santa brought you everything you wished for and more! My family didn't do a gift exchange this year as we are on vacation together instead, so let me live vicariously through you - what was your favorite present this year?





















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We've been doing more of the same down here - lounging, playing board games, tanning when the sun is out, going on bike rides and walking along the beach.







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Why did no one tell me sooner how versatile a mustard cardigan is?! I have seriously worn it every day we've been here.

Cardigan: Thrifted {similar} 
Tee: H&M  {similar}
Shorts: Aeropostale  {similar}
Sunglasses: Ray Bans  {exact}
Toe Nails: OPI My Throne for a Cranberry Scone
Dirty Hair: c/o laziness


















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Cardigan: thrifted (told you)
Tank: Old Navy  {similar}
Purse: via Boston Store
Jeans: American Eagle {exact on sale}
Sandles: Sam Edelman via AE  {similar}

























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I made Chris ride the girly bike. The boy bike matched my outfit better....










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We even did a little swimming and boogie boarding. The water was ....chilly.











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Various locations around the world that are special to our family, and how far away/what direction they are.



























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Fireworks and monopoly rounded out our Christmas Eve. The weather the rest of the week is looking promising, so hopefully I will return to Wisconsin with just a little bit of color.



linking up with wiww and because shanna said so.


Sunday, December 23, 2012

fly away

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just a little update :) we're having fun doing a lot of relaxing, beach combing, bird chasing and reading... 





















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...even if that reading is study material for the step 2s.


























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Shirt: Calvin Klein  {save / splurge}
Shorts: Aeropostale  {similar}
Bikini Top: Body Glove {exact-great for the big chested}
Hat: H&M  {similar}
Sunglasses: Ralph Lauren  {exact}




















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no birdies were harmed in the making of this gif.

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glad to have Viktoria here for the week as well :)
























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My fisherman sweater makes a lot more sense on the ocean.























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Saturday, December 22, 2012

beachy

From blizzard to bikinis. I'm on vacation with my family for the next week so posting will be a bit slow. I'll be snapping lots of pictures on instagram if you want to follow along :)


Thursday, December 20, 2012

thundersnow

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...is a real thing apparently.

We've been hit with about 18 inches of snow (so far) so it's been an adventure (and by adventure I mean nightmare). I had to go to work today (for 3 hours...) so it was fun having the streets alllll to myself. But then I got to come home and nap. After said napping, Chris and I went out to explore. We hiked around in the snow for about 4 miles. Kind of dumb since trees were literally being pulled out of the ground from the heavy weight of the snow, but also kind of awesome.












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"Take a picture of my gloves!"
"Why?"
"Because they're cute!"
"You are so weird"

But they are cute, right?

















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Jacket: purchased in Germany  {similar}
Hat: Gap  {similar that I want too}
Scarf: Forever 21  {similar}
Gloves: also from Germany  {similar, similar}
Pants: Urban Outfitters  {exact}
Boots: Steve Madden  {similar}


















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behind the blog: literate & stylish


This week's Behind the Blog features Heidi from Literate & Stylish. Heidi is a hardworking woman who showcases her amazing thrifting finds in her daily outfits. If you are looking for someone with a great working wardrobe that she has curated on the cheap, she's your girl!

Tell us what motivate you to start blogging. Were you following a lot of personal style/fashion blogs before you started blogging?
yes, i started out by reading style blogs and kept up my reader/lurker status for a loooong time.  i never thought about starting my own blog because i was in grad school when i first found style blogs and at the time and style/fashion wasn't something i thought about to the extent that i do now.  i was a jeans-wearer 7 days a week, which is just the way i was used to dressing since high school and into college.  i owned a few pairs of dress pants and what could pass as dress shoes, but i never had a reason for trying to dress with an ounce of style.  i gradually became more interested in fashion from reading blogs {i think my mind was blown the first time i saw someone belt a scarf... speaking of which, why don't many bloggers belt scarves anymore?} and i was prompted to start taking my own daily outfit pictures when i started my first job out of grad school and had to figure out how to dress in a business casual environment.  i did that for a good year and a half so i could see what outfits i liked, what worked, what didn't, etc.  finally, i put the two together and started my blog when i felt that i'd developed some semblance of a personal style and wanted to share my experience with the broader blogging community.

Which blogs do you read every day? 
i feel like i am going to leave someone out, but here goes:  along the lines of styleordinary fashionistaapples & pencil skirtsanimated cardigandainty & decadent, and dayi's sense of style are blogs i look at first on my google reader because i feel their style most similarly reflects my own and i love being inspired by their outfits, especially if i am at a loss of what to wear the next day!  and i think it goes without saying that i love your blog franziska!


Who takes your pictures? What cameras/lenses do you use? Have you ever been "caught in the act" of taking these pictures?
i take all of my own pictures with a nikon d40 (and stock lens) and remote.  i've never been caught in the act as my routine is to snap a couple pictures when i get home from work since i am the first one home, then i quickly import the pictures onto my computer so there's no "evidence" left on my camera, even if i don't post (i still take pictures of my outfits every single day).  when i first started blogging, i tried to find outdoor locations to take pictures and was nearly caught in my apartment parking lot and the target parking lot, so i keep to the safety of my bedroom now!

What programs do you use to edit and upload your pictures? 
i crop and resize my pictures in adobe photoshop and add a layer of color, but that's the only editing i do (or admittedly know how to do!).

Do people in real life know about your blog? What were their reactions when they found out about your blog?
my sister insinuated a long time ago that i had a blog and i worry she may have seen my blog in a tab on my browser on my computer (sure, it could have been anyone's blog), but she's never called me out on it.  if she were to ask, i would probably come clean but right now it's my own thing that i'm not comfortable sharing with anyone in my real life yet.  one of my friends is really into pinterest and i worry about her coming across a picture of me or something that will lead a trail to me, but i don't think that's happened yet or i'm sure i would have heard about it!

A lot of your clothing pieces are thrifted. What motivated you to start thrifting, and what tips do you have for those who don't have as much experience in it?
although i volunteered sorting clothes at a thrift store for a service club in high school, i didn't grow up thrifting.  i didn't visit a thrift store with the intention of shopping for myself until about five years ago.  i had moved across the country to a new city to start grad school and was alone and bored and needed something to do.  my mom encouraged me to go and check it out... and i finally did.  i still remember a couple things i bought that first thrifting trip and when i came away with donated target stock i was hooked.  i found that the basics i wished to fill my closet with could be found within the racks of donated clothing, and this avenue has worked really well for me to build and expand my professional wardrobe on a grad school student's (and now social worker's) budget.  as for tips, i honestly don't think that you need any to start thrifting... just take the leap, check it out, and allow time & patience - you may have to make the rounds to several thrift stores in your area to find the one that you like the best or go back week after week before you finally find a treasure.  believe me, finding that j crew skirt or a perfect pair of heels will make it all worth it!  i also recommend finding your favorite thrift store's websites to find out what their sales patterns are and signing up for their email lists or frequent shopper cards.

Many fashion bloggers hop from one trend to the next. How do you try to stay on trend while working within your budget and closet?
i will be the first to admit that i do not feel compelled to follow trends.  if anything i am wearing happens to be something that is on trend, it is probably a fluke or something that i have had for a while.  i don't feel that i have to look like everyone else and before i even started reading fashion blogs i didn't even know what was trending each season.  i lose inspiration really quickly when i see everyone on my reader wearing the same pieces season after season.

Putting yourself on the internet comes with the expectation that not everyone will always love what you are wearing and writing. Have you encountered any of these criticisms, and if so, how do you handle it?
i kind of find this hard to believe, but i've only received one negative comment since i've been blogging from someone who said they didn't like a particular skirt that i wore one day.  it stung for about a second until i took another glance at the photo and realized i wasn't too crazy about it either.  i do wish that reader would have offered a reason why she didn't like the skirt or why it looked off on me.  if we're afraid to give (or receive) constructive criticism, we'll never grow or start to look at what we're wearing in different ways.

What has been the best thing to come out of blogging? 
blogging has always been a very selfish act for me in that i do it for myself and consider my blog my little baby, so the fact that there are actually hundreds of people who visit my blog still kind of blows my mind.  the internal transformation i've had towards certain articles of clothing and simply getting dressed in the morning and feeling good about myself has been the best thing about blogging so far.  my confidence has really increased beyond my wildest imagination.

When it comes to promotion of your blog, what methods do you use? Do you spend a lot of time commenting on other blogs, pinning your looks, doing link ups?
this is an area where i definitely lag behind the curve.  i don't do twitter, facebook, instagram, and i begrudgingly joined pinterest when someone invited me but i don't pin my own outfits in the hope that they'll be repinned.  i do a few link ups like these when i feel i have something to contribute, but other that i don't feel a great deal of pressure at this time to really promote my blog.  i'm not sure if that will change in the future, i'm kind of a lazy blogger and would find it really hard to stay on top of all of those different methods if i joined them all.

What tips or suggestions do you have for your fellow bloggers?
one suggestion i would put out there is that i think it's important that we respond to comments that are left on our blogs.  i may come across a post i like in my google reader, but i'll be less inclined to leave the blogger a comment if they have a history of never replying back and engaging me as the reader in a conversation.  even a simple "thank you" or "i'm glad you dropped by" instantly means so much.  we all invest a lot of time in this hobby and it's nice to know that the blogger appreciated the time you took to click through your reader, decipher the annoying word verification codes if applicable (why do so many bloggers still use that?  i don't understand!), and leave a meaningful comment.
-heidi
literate&stylish


Thank you Heidi! Next we Chic on the Cheap is being featured - you're going to love her answers!

Tuesday, December 18, 2012

ketchup and mustard

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I'm ready for this week to be over. Two people of 4-person team were pulled into a different department so now we have to cover their duties as well so this week has been a little (a lot) hectic. We're also supposed to get a huge snow storm tomorrow - gross. I seriously hate snow so I ask myself why I live in this state every winter.

The good news is once Friday comes, I get to fly off to the Gulf for a week to spend time with the entire family. Plus Chris will finally be home for a while :) God I've missed that guy.






linking up with wiww.






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Sweater: Thrifted  {save / splurge}
T-Shirt: Gap
Scarf: DIY
Belt: Madewell  {similar}
Jeans: Joe's Jeans  {similar}
Shoes: Tory Burch  {exact}
Watch: Boccia
Nails: Deborah Lippmann Stormy Weather {exact}

















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After my last post about my thrifted Grandpa sweater (did you guys like the song?), Bri asked if I had any tips for thrifting.  To be honest, I haven't done a ton of thrift shopping in my life so I don't have years of experience to tell you how the best way to go about buying clothes second hand. I've only gone to our local Goodwill, Savers and St. Vinny's but here are a few things I've learned from those experiences and from around the internet:

- Take your time. The thing with thrift stores is that there is no display or giant racks of the same thing. Look through each rack piece by piece.

- Try on anything that catches your attention. You'll never know until you try!

- Find out when your local stores have discounts. Our Savers store is 25% off on Mondays. Goodwill has weekend sticker percentages off. St. Vinnys often has a certain type of item on sale. A $4 sweater becomes a $3 - we all know how much I love a bargain!

- Don't forget to wash anything you buy. 

- For all your experienced thrifters, I would welcome any tips you have as well!

Monday, December 17, 2012

I wear your granddad's clothes, I look incredible

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A little fisherman, a little old man, a lot of comfortable. I got this sweater this weekend while doing a little thrifting and although some may not be as enamored with it as I am (I was called a fisherman twice today), I'm excited to add it to my closet. Plus for less than $3, a grey wool sweater can't really be beat.




















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Sweater: Thrifted
Button-up: Gap  {save / splurge}
Jeans: American Eagle  {exact}
Shoes: Crown Vintage  {save / splurge}
Watch: Kate Spade  {exact}



















...and if you've spent any time thrifting, you'll appreciate this song. plus it's so damn catchy!